{"id":45083,"date":"2025-07-29T07:29:45","date_gmt":"2025-07-29T11:29:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/?p=45083"},"modified":"2025-07-31T02:49:09","modified_gmt":"2025-07-31T06:49:09","slug":"this-is-why-i-dont-tell-anyone-about-my-hobbies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/2025\/07\/this-is-why-i-dont-tell-anyone-about-my-hobbies\/","title":{"rendered":"This is why I don't tell anyone about my hobbies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/techdeckmissed.jpg\" width=\"420\" height=\"415\" alt=\"Craigslist: \n\nStop performatively techdecking at my cafe (NW) \n\nThis is more of a 'l wish I missed this connection'\n\nYou can't make me acknowledge your 'Ollie'. Your ability to talk at me is immense and unmatched. This is a nonconsensual act. I am your prisoner and you are updating me daily on your fingerboard ramps and your interpersonal conflicts. I am sorry that you are the saddest man alive but I am not a safe space for the tech decking community. If my silence wasn't enough of a response, I must make this clear: If you tech deck on my counter one more time and wait expectantly for validation, I am gonna have to do something unsavory that will change the trajectory of our lives.\" class=\"aligncenter\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[198],"tags":[482],"class_list":["post-45083","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-random","tag-tech-deck"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45083","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45083"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45083\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":45084,"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45083\/revisions\/45084"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45083"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45083"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.oafe.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45083"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}